If you’ve been in theÂ consultingÂ business for any amount of time, youÂ alreadyÂ know how tough it is to be an entrepreneur with a passion for helping people – let alone doing it all as a young woman. We’ve got the enthusiasm, the expertise andÂ even the networks, but somehow these assets don’t necessarily translate intoÂ financialÂ success in ourÂ consultingÂ businesses. Why is that?
Something I’veÂ noticed—especiallyÂ among women—is thatÂ we often get stuck when trying to grow our practice; not for lack ofÂ knowledge, but simply lack ofÂ confidence. WeÂ getÂ stuckÂ becauseÂ we’re holding a subconscious belief that we shouldn’t beÂ chargingÂ forÂ somethingÂ that we loveÂ doing so much we’dÂ do it for free. Other times procrastinate on starting that BigÂ ProjectÂ due to a fear of failure.
While women have great entrepreneurial potential, we often fall into various “mind trapsâ€ Â that sabotage our businesses and keep us from doing what we need toÂ do toÂ achieve our full financialÂ potential.
Here are six mind traps to watch out for.
- You’re not selling. Most women hate selling with a passion. We’d rather make friends with people and have them turn into customers organically. As a result, we often find it difficult to put ourselves out there and market our businesses and ask for sales.
- You’re not charging enough. Women often have a hard time asking for what we’re worth. According to researchÂ byÂ negotiation expert Linda Babcock, women are two-and-a-half times more likely than men to feel “a great deal of apprehensionâ€ about negotiating. This is very common in salary negotiation and also shows up in how we price our expertise, services or products.
- You’re not charging at all. When you’re starting out as a consultant, it can be easy to fall into the mindset that you have to offer your services pro-bono or at a deepÂ discountÂ to get some experience or encourage word of mouth marketing. The problem with that is if you provideÂ too much value to your customers for free, they won’t want to pay you when you start charging for it.