Give First and Expect Nothing in Return
During your initial meeting,Â did your new contactÂ mentionÂ a need overtly or in passing? Perhaps they mentioned that their sibling is a job seeker?Â If so, maybe you can follow up and inquire about what he/she wants to do andÂ ask for a resume to pass to a few possible connectors or companiesÂ who are hiring.
This is one example of many possible scenarios, butÂ what’s important is to seek out opportunities in which you can helpÂ someone with a need they have. Take the lead and expect nothing inÂ return (most people are wired with a reciprocity mentality); continue to do this and you’ll grow a positive reputation asÂ someone who pays it forward. People will be attracted to you and willÂ want to help you in return.
Set Up a One-on-One Meeting
Be clear about your intentions for any meetingÂ beforehand so the other party can prepare accordingly. Ideally, makeÂ it somewhere that is convenient for the other person, or worst case,Â midway between you both,Â easily accessible,Â has plenty of parking,Â and will have a quiet (enough) space for you to talk. The first one-on-one meeting is about further developing your rapport with your newÂ contact. Rather than forcing your agenda on them byÂ leading with things about you and your business, let them ask.
Use the Power of One Connection to Open Many Doors
Any contact withÂ whom you interact knows hundreds, if not thousands, of other people.Â This makes the power of your conversation exponential. Remember: when you’re talking to someone, you’reÂ actually speaking to their entire network. The same goes for them with you.
So once you’ve developed real trust with someone, you’llÂ wantÂ to be more intentional about how you help them. If someone is looking for a job, aÂ business lead, or some other tangible introduction, open up your list of contacts to them.Â There is even a handy export tool on LinkedIn’s free version wherebyÂ you can download all of your contacts and share theirÂ name, company, and position with your new connection so they can identify people themselves.
However you do it, sharing your list allows you to reachÂ back out to others in your network to offer a potentially valuableÂ introduction. Once you’ve warmed up the third party on the connection,Â close the circle and make the warm introduction.
UseÂ Tools Beyond LinkedIn
One of myÂ favorite tools is Newsle. It connects to your contacts and sends you emailÂ digests to let you know when someone in your network has appearedÂ in the news. Another favorite is HARO (Help a Reporter Out). You’ll get threeÂ emails perÂ day with opportunities from press outlets to beÂ quoted or featured in their stories. It’s great to useÂ yourself, but also to share with your contacts who are aÂ good fit. Lastly, check out Relate.ly. This is an inexpensiveÂ platform that scores how well you’re keeping up with your contacts.
There you have it: eight simple steps toÂ master the art ofÂ networking follow-up. It’s always best to work on one new habit andÂ get it down before going to the next, so consider breaking up these tipsÂ and addingÂ oneÂ to your calendar every couple weeks. That way, you canÂ slowly and naturally integrate them into your follow-up routine.
Here’sÂ to you building a stronger network.
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