Motherhood vs. Career Pursuit: Should Women Have to Choose?

Motherhood vs. Career Pursuit: Should Women Have to Choose?

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From fashion icon and entrepreneur Kimora Lee Simmons to top Xerox executive Ursula Burns, many women around the world have seen tremendous career success while balancing the often rewarding— and demanding— job of being a mother. But the question for many working women has always been whether they can aggressively and realistically pursue career advancement while juggling baby bottles and diapers, or whether they’ll have to put a very important decision on the back burner to freely climb that ladder of success.

Some women work to have the best of both worlds—juggling parent-teacher conferences with executive meetings— while others decide to put their careers on hold to focus solely on mommyhood. The decision of when to start a family can be a difficult one for many women who consider how a 9-month pregnacy (which could mean loss of work time, missed business opportunities and health issues) and subsequent parenting responsibilities will affect their career advancement timeline or compromise their seat at the top players’ tables (which are oftentimes dominated by men.) Twitter followers were asked the question: “#Motherhood v. #Career: Should we have to Choose?” and got an overwhelming response. Many women (along with several men) responded with their take on family planning, balancing family life with entrepreneurship endeavors and choosing motherhood as a priority. As Mother’s Day approaches, we take a look at the dialogue on a decision that for some is a no-brainer, while for others is quite a dilemma.

One mother: @blackenterprise When you have a child, you know you have to give up certain things. Sleep being #1 and career #2 #motherhood #career

Another Twitter follower: @blackenterprise: Can we put to rest the notion that a woman pursuing her career is not “missing”something?” I know post MBA exec wmn w/fam

Take a look at the dialogue and weigh in: Should women have to choose between starting a family and seeking ultimate career fulfillment?