Why the NBA Honored This Single Mom

Why the NBA Honored This Single Mom

Sharon Spencer is a 51-year-old, single mother who battled breast cancer at the start of her 40th birthday, underwent a mastectomy, suffered a devastating car accident that caused her to lose her right leg and went through 22 surgeries—nevertheless, she persisted.

As an amputee, cancer survivor, and Barclays Center Guest Services employee, NBA commissioner Adam Silver honored Spencer with the annual NBA Values of the Game Award—an award given to one person who exemplifies the values of the league. During an interview with the NY Post, Brooklyn Sports & Entertainment CEO Brett Yormark, who nominated Spencer for the league honor said “Sharon has overcome so many obstacles in life but continues to come in with a smile, diligence and a work ethic that you very seldom see. For the fans who sit in Sharon’s section at Barclays Center, she has become synonymous with the game experience,” he continued.

(photo credit: Sharon Spencer)

“You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting for you.”

While many people would say you need to find the strength to bounce back from a crisis—sometimes getting through life’s ups and downs is more about playing the cards that you’re dealt and moving forward. We caught up with Spencer to gather some insight into how to cope with major life changes.

“After a hysterectomy in February of 2006, I had my first mammogram. Sad to say I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was devastated. I had a mastectomy in December of 2006 followed by chemotherapy in February of 2007. My son Aaron was away at Syracuse College and depended on me. After the treatment (cancer free) I returned back to my music-publishing job of 21 years. On July 26th of 2008, I was in a terrible car accident caused by a drunk driver causing me to lose my right leg (above the knee).

After my accident, I feared that I would not be able to adapt to my new life and I would never be able to work again. My three sources of strength were GOD, my family, and my therapist. I had to do it for myself and for my son Aaron who always looked up to me for strength.

I have had a total of 22 surgeries and to add insult to injury I was fired from my job in 2009. God has helped me turn my tragedies into something positive. My son Aaron has graduated and now has his masters. I started writing and performing poetry about all of my experiences. I also do public speaking. I visit and support other breast cancer patients and other amputees.”

To the woman who feels like she has nothing else to live for and is ready to give up

“Things may look bad now but if you keep the faith, pray, and try you can overcome your obstacle and live a productive life. It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish. I am a woman of faith. I knew that God was going to use me before and after the NBA award. I was and still, am honored.”