Aaron Henderson, ZuCot Gallery

Atlanta-Based Zucot Gallery Responds To Art Collectors’ Needs

Its latest exhibition is Dear Black People: A Love Letter.


Written By Shantay Robinson 

Onaje Henderson, one of the three owners of ZuCot Gallery located in Atlanta, thinks that we need to normalize art collecting in the Black community. So, he hosts Art Tastings, an event led by an artist and one of the gallery’s professionals, designed to reduce the intimidation factor of collecting that keeps so many people from going to gallery shows and investing in art.

“For a lot of us, even corporate executives, it’s their first time buying artwork or coming to an art gallery,” Henderson tells BLACK ENTERPRISE of some of his visitors, “So then, how do we make them feel comfortable about these spaces?” Henderson aims to foster a welcoming environment at his gallery for both veteran collectors and novices.

There is a difference between a gallery like ZuCot and blue-chip galleries where you’ll see works by artists like Kehinde Wiley, Kerry James Marshall, and Amy Sherald. Blue-chip galleries focus on artists who are already considered major figures in Western art history, both living and deceased. 

These artworks that fetch millions of dollars are a far reach for the first-time art collector who is not willing or able to invest that much into an artwork. A gallery like ZuCot is making itself accessible to a different audience than that of a blue-chip gallery. Though blue-chip galleries may represent some Black artists, they are not focused on the kind of cultural legacy work Henderson is promoting. 

Henderson sees collectors as custodians of the culture, able to pass down stories to the next generation. He notes that generations following the baby boomers may be doing better financially, but, in his estimation, older generations did a better job of passing down heirlooms and other things that were important to them, helping their descendants understand who they were. Passing down artworks across generations shares important narratives about collective history with future generations.

For a gallery like ZuCot, the real draw is the narratives the art tells.

“I want to understand what the meaning behind the artwork is and how that ties back into either the personal experience of the artist or the experience of the diaspora,” Henderson says.

Artists Charly Palmer, Jamaal Barber, Horace Imhotep, Georgette Baker, Michael Reese, and Henderson’s father, Aaron Henderson, are featured in the latest exhibition, Dear Black People: A Love Letter.

The exhibition conveys the idea that Black people not only survive hardship but also thrive. This exhibition highlights the importance of remembering. In the face of racism that is now more similar to what the elders experienced, one that is sometimes overt and direct, Black people need to remember who they are. The exhibition invited the artists featured to center Black joy, resilience, beauty, culture, and creativity. The gallery makes clear that the show is not a protest; it’s a proclamation —an “an act of cultural preservation and affirmation.”

The striking artworks, composed of bold colors and dynamic figures, are quite defiant and very much grounded in African American aesthetics that center narratives about the Black experience with race in America. Themes of cultural memory, spirituality, and ancestral connection in the artworks express the many ways Black people have resisted oppressive forces over time.

Charly Palmer’s painting, “Can I Get a Witness,” depicts a crowd of observers witnessing an act in the distance. The style of dress indicates this scene is from a time gone by, as Black women are prominently seen wearing maids’ uniforms. With their arms crossed in front of their chests and the grimaces on their faces, the scene looks all too familiar, sans cell phones. 

A more conceptual painting, “Liberty Variant,” by Horace Imhotep, features a bold red background and a dynamic black lightning bolt striking the white Liberty Bell down onto a pile of black ashes. The symbolism is profound, expressing a narrative that tells of the historical subjugation of Black people in America.

ZuCot saw one of its most lucrative moments during COVID. “I think part of that is when people were staying at home, they looked around and said, I don’t have anything on my walls that is a reflection of me,” Henderson says. In our current economy, potential collectors are being more conservative, as collecting art is seen as a luxury.

Henderson says, “We need to support [the arts] because the federal government is giving up so many grants. We now have to support our institutions.”

Collecting art may be most imperative at this moment because of the decrease in government funding allocated for cultural institutions. If we want to see these cultural institutions continue, we have to invest in them. 

It’s evident that Henderson is passionate about his work. He left corporate America, where he worked as an engineer, at 29 to join forces with his brother and business partner, both also engineers, to start ZuCot with a mission to serve as an inclusive space for Black collectors. Initially, it started out as work to care for their father and his contemporaries’ artwork because no one else was doing it. So, for about 25 years now, they’ve been normalizing the culture of collecting and challenging companies to live up to their diversity propositions.

In addition to events that groom individual art collectors, the gallery also works with corporate collectors, who claim to believe in diversity, by including Black artists in their collections. They’ve worked with Coca-Cola, Delta Airlines, Home Depot, and numerous other Fortune 500 companies.

“I shouldn’t have to wait on somebody to tell me what’s good for my community. I should be able to say what’s good for me. I think that’s the empowering part of collecting as well,” Henderson says. “All too often, we’re told who the top Black artists are from people who are not in our community. It’s not coming from us, and I think that ownership needs to be back in our hands.”

Dear Black People: A Love Letter will be on view at ZuCot Gallery, 100 Centennial Olympic Park Drive, Atlanta, GA 30313, until mid-November.

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MARY SHEFFIELD, MAYOR, DETROIT, ball

A Historic Run: Everything Detroit Voters Need To Know About Mayoral Candidate Mary Sheffield

Sheffield touched on the progress the city has made under the leadership of current Mayor Mike Duggan who is hoping to be the next governor of Michigan but she said she is the woman to finish the job.


Election Day has arrived, and there are several hot-ticketed races, including the Detroit mayoral race between City Council President Mary Sheffield and Pastor Solomon Kinloch Jr., with Sheffield seeking to become the first Black woman to lead the city, Click On Detroit reported. 

Sheffield has served on the Motor City Council since 2013 and made history in 2022 by becoming the youngest person elected as council president. She has a keen vision for Detroit, which has been riddled with political turmoil in the past, including reliable transportation, affordable housing, and the restoration of distressed neighborhoods. 

During an interview close to her campaign headquarters, Sheffield touched on the progress the city has made under the leadership of current Mayor Mike Duggan, who is hoping to be the next governor of Michigan. Still, she said she is the woman to finish the job.

“We’ve made progress in Detroit, and there’s no doubt that there’s more work that needs to be done, and I’m running to finish the work that we started,” she said, according to WXYZ Detroit

“Whether that’s prioritizing our neighborhoods, ensuring that we’re improving education, ensuring there are good livable wage jobs for our residents, and also ensuring that we’re reducing crime in Detroit, these things are fundamental to the city rising higher.”

While Sheffield has already issued a 100-day plan to continue Detroit’s progress and set new standards within city hall, her campaign has been met with some scrutiny, particularly over her social media presence. During a June 2025 debate, former opponent Saunteel Jenkins said in her closing argument, “If you want a mayor who shows up on Instagram but doesn’t show up for meetings, then follow Mary.”

The slight jab comes after Sheffield was under fire for accepting free tickets to a Jeezy concert at the Fox Theatre, where the hip-hop artist gave her a shoutout. The rapper can be heard saying “Shoutout to Mary Sheffield, congratulations already!” in the Instagram post as the candidate posted it with the caption, “Detroit, let’s finish the work!! Thank you, @jeezy.” 

Kinloch used this opportunity to condemn the tickets, saying they reopen wounds from Detroit’s corrupt reputation. “Detroiters still carry the scars of systemic corruption. That culture of corruption bankrupted our city and destroyed public trust,” he said in a statement.

After highlighting the city’s ethics ordinance, with Section 2-106.4 prohibiting “a public servant from accepting gifts, gratuities, or honoraria from any entity or person seeking official action from the city of Detroit,” Sheffield campaign spokesperson Brittni Brown cited the code not being applicable since Comerica Bank presented the tickets. 

Kinloch has similar ideas for the city as he secured his name on the ballot for the general election with roughly 1,100 more votes than Jenkins. The pastor of Triumph Church, who has served for the last 27 years, hopes to focus on improving public safety, affordable housing, and guaranteeing business prosperity. If elected, one of his first goals is to prioritize poverty and crime, with a focus on the vast number of children living in poverty. “We’ve got too many children in our community that are living in poverty, we have a violent crime rate that’s second to the nation, when we have people struggling because they’re spending 50 percent of their income to keep a roof over their head, this is a critical time,” Kinloch said.

“We gotta make sure we get it right.”

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Jeezy ‘Put On’ For Guinness, Sets World Record For Largest Orchestra At Hip-Hop Concert

Jeezy further solidified his status as a legend for Hip Hop and trap music.


One pioneer of trap music is still making history. Atlanta rapper Jeezy has broken a new record after performing with a 101-piece orchestra in Las Vegas.

On Nov. 1, Jeezy took the stage at Planet Hollywood Resort and Casino for his short yet already record-breaking residency. While performing in Sin City for a limited time, the “Put On” rapper sought to make history.

The hip-hop crooner already made waves for his new take on a rap concert. While he has gathered an entire orchestra before to play his trap-style music classically, he decided to take things up a notch to secure his place in the record books.

He performed at the record-holding show with the Color of Noize Orchestra, a diverse cohort of esteemed musicians conducted by Derrick Hodge. While they have joined Jeezy on his TM:101 tour throughout the year, the two parties left a different impact for one special night in Vegas.

Now, Jeezy holds the Guinness World Record for the largest orchestra gathered for a hip-hop concert. According to Billboard, A Guinness adjudicator presented Jeezy with the new record on stage.

“It is always been my purpose to motivate and inspire my culture,” wrote Jeezy. “Thank you to everyone involved for believing in my vision. Couldn’t have done it without you. This one’s for the books … literally.”

Jeezy is a trailblazer not only in Guinness World Records but also in hip-hop for elevating the trap music genre. Since starting his career decades ago, he has shaped the culture with his unapologetic trap star persona and sound.

Now, he continues to showcase his musical excellence and his latest achievement: becoming a Guinness World Record holder. He also broke Las Vegas’ own record for the largest orchestra assembly for a concert, regardless of genre.

The hip-hop superstar will continue his limited Las Vegas residency with two more shows in December.

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Final Witness: Dying Boyfriend Wakes From Coma To Identify Florida Woman In Vehicular Homicide

Leigha Mumby has been charged after allegedly causing a car accident that ended with her boyfriend's death months later


A 24-year-old Florida woman, Leigha Mumby, has been arrested and charged with vehicular homicide more than six months after allegedly causing a car accident that placed her boyfriend in a coma before he died in October. He revealed to police officials in May, after waking up from a coma, that his girlfriend deliberately caused the crash.

According to Law & Crime, the crash took place in Flagler County, Florida, Feb. 9. Her boyfriend, Daniel Waterman, was in the car with her, and the two were arguing. She allegedly swerved the vehicle off the road and into a tree, causing Waterman to become incapacitated.

He was in a coma for several months, and when he awoke, he told police officers that, before the crash occurred, Mumby said to him, “I don’t care what happens, you’ll get what you deserve.”

“In his interview, Daniel stated that he and Leigha were in an argument due to personal issues with Leigha finding out she was pregnant that day and a text message Daniel received from a female friend in New York,” it was reported in the complaint. “Daniel and Leigha exchanged expletives. Daniel stated, Leigha began driving recklessly.” Waterman told police that she slowed the vehicle to 50 mph and, when he tried to exit, accelerated to 80 to 90 mph before making the statement to him. That was the last thing he remembers before the car crash took place.

Mumby was originally charged with reckless driving with serious bodily harm and aggravated battery with a deadly weapon resulting in bodily harm in July, after Waterman revealed the information to authorities. After Waterman’s death on Oct. 8 (he died after developing pneumonia), police added the additional charge of vehicular homicide.

Waterman sustained a “C6-7 fracture, cervical spine injury, clavicle fracture, femur fracture, hip dislocation, epidural hematoma, pneumothorax with pulmonary contusion, zygomatic and temporal contusion, [and a] talus fracture,” according to the criminal complaint.

Mumby has posted bond and is scheduled to be in court Nov. 19.

Waterman did have one last wish, according to Syracuse.com. His family said that he wanted them to take care of the girl that Mumby was pregnant with. 

“He wanted her raised in New York with his family.”

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Race Against the Clock: Jamaica Pushes Post-Melissa Recovery To Salvage Crucial Winter Tourism Season

Jamaica is racing to rebuild and recover from the devastation caused by Hurricane Melissa ahead of the winter travel season.


After Hurricane Melissa caused widespread damage across western Jamaica, the country is racing to restore its tourism sector ahead of the upcoming winter travel season.

On Nov. 3, nearly a week after Hurricane Melissa struck Jamaica as a Category 5 storm, the strongest in the island’s history, Tourism Minister Ed Bartlett announced the creation of high-level recovery and donation task forces for the tourism sector, the Jamaica Gleaner reports. The teams will assess damage, coordinate industry-wide relief efforts, and develop a sustainable recovery plan to ensure the island is ready for the start of its winter tourism season on Dec. 15.

“The recovery of our tourism sector must be deliberate, coordinated, and compassionate,” Bartlett said. “Through these task forces, we are ensuring that the welfare of our workers, the rehabilitation of our infrastructure, and the recovery of the tourism sector move in tandem. The activities will be integrated into the national disaster response mechanism.”

Before Hurricane Melissa struck on Oct. 28, Jamaica’s tourism industry was projected to grow by 7% this winter, with an expected 4.3 million visitors. Now, the focus has shifted to a rapid recovery effort to repair hotels, clear debris, and restore key attractions across the island’s western region to revive the tourism economy when it’s needed most. Bartlett said the initiative will work closely with the Global Tourism Resilience and Crisis Management Centre (GTRCMC) to apply lessons from past recoveries, including Jamaica’s post–COVID-19 rebound, ensuring a coordinated and sustainable rebuilding strategy.

“Tourism’s strength lies not just in its product offerings, but in its people and partnerships,” Bartlett said. “The speed and synergy of our response show the industry’s resilience and our unwavering commitment to recovery with empathy, compassion, and innovation.”

Christopher Jarrett, head of the Jamaica Hotel and Tourist Association, noted that the popular Negril area in Westmoreland escaped major damage.

“We are still doing our assessments, but most of the damage was in the northwest and southwest,” Jarrett said.

Tourism is Jamaica’s leading source of foreign exchange, accounting for roughly 30% of the nation’s GDP both directly and indirectly. The industry employs around 175,000 people and fuels growth in several key sectors, including construction, banking, utilities, and agriculture. The disruption to the tourism sector is also impacting numerous suppliers and service providers across the island.

“With some of the hotels closed and most of the tourists gone, many of us are left without work. This storm didn’t just destroy buildings; it shattered jobs and incomes for many of us and our families,” said Patricia Mighten, who works in the western parish of Hanover as a hotel housekeeper.

All of Jamaica’s international airports have reopened and resumed commercial flights. Jarrett noted that many hotels in Kingston and the northern coastal town of Ocho Rios have seen a rise in bookings from aid workers and volunteers supporting recovery efforts, with several offering discounts of 25% to 50%, and some even providing complimentary stays.

As of Nov. 3, the government confirmed that the death toll had risen to 32, with expectations that the number could climb further. Rescue crews are still working to reach 25 isolated areas in western Jamaica, where helicopters are delivering food and supplies. Nearly half of the island’s power customers remain without electricity.

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ATL Food Bank Uses $5M In Reserve To Feed Families Amid SNAP Cut

The food bank has already seen a surge in interested customers amid SNAP funding shortages.


An Atlanta Food Bank is looking into its own monetary reserves to feed families as the SNAP funding shortages get\ underway.

The Atlanta Community Food Bank supplies groceries to nearly 700 pantries across north Georgia. Given the number of families in need as SNAP funding remains in limbo, the food bank has dug into its own reserves to keep food on Georgia families’ tables.

The Food Bank has already seen a surge in interested participants since SNAP was on the brink of being cut off. While federal judges have ordered payouts anyway, as state governments also pick up the slack, families can still head to local resources during the legal battles.

“We’re still going to be dealing with some elevated demand. Lines are getting longer at food pantries all across North Georgia. The number of people coming to our website, looking for help, has gone up 500 percent since the beginning of the month,” shared Kyle Waide, CEO of the food assistance nonprofit, to Fox5.

In the wake of this, the Atlanta Community Food Bank has pulled $5 million from its reserves to purchase even more food to fill its anticipated needs. The Trump administration has also decided to pull funding similarly. They have since taken out $4.65 billion from the SNAP program’s contingency fund.

However, the news comes only after a Rhode Island judge ordered the U.S. Department of Agriculture to keep SNAP benefits standing. The Trump administration has confirmed that only partial SNAP payments will be allocated. While Trump could have ordered the full benefits by drawing funds from other sources, he decided to draw solely from the contingency fund for undisclosed reasons.

However, this flux of updates and partial payouts may not be enough for many families. Waide also thinks the delayed benefits will have food-insecure households looking to resources like theirs for help.

“The SNAP benefits won’t start flowing again, I would anticipate, for a few weeks,” Waide said. “We’re expecting a big surge in demand over the next week or two as people try to figure out where they’re going to get food.”

As for what will happen next month if the shutdown continues, anxious families remain in the dark. In the meantime, local food pantries and city-wide food banks are gearing up to keep residents fed.

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Grandma’s House Should Stay In The Family: Ending Cycle Of Loss In Black Families

Ten years into practicing probate law, Jehan Crump-Gibson hit a wall with estate planning


Ten years into practicing probate law, Jehan Crump-Gibson hit a wall with estate planning. She grew exhausted with the court cases, especially among her Black clients, of families arguing over grandma’s house, granddad’s money, and arguing who would take care of their mom or dad.  

Crump-Gibson knew the solution to the fighting was relatively simple: estate planning and setting up a power of attorney. That’s why she has made it her mission to ratchet up community education and workshops, and authored the book, A Matter of Life and Death: How to Handle Family Affairs During Illness and Death and Keep Probate Court Out of Your Business.

“It’s already a hard subject to talk about, then compound that with the million-dollar words that people can’t understand,” she told BLACK ENTERPRISE. “So [I thought], how can I put this in everyday language so that everyone understands that we need to plan, and it doesn’t matter what your assets or family looks like.”

70% of Black Families Are Not Estate Planning, Report Reveals

The global COVID-19 pandemic prompted people to confront end-of-life planning like never before, regardless of age. By 2022, two years after the start of the pandemic, 33% of Americans reported having a living will, according to a study by Caring.com. Younger people saw the most significant increase. The number of 18-34-year-olds with estate planning documents increased by 50% at the time.

However, things have taken a turn. According to Caring.com’s latest study, only 24% of Americans report having a living will, down from 33% previously. These numbers are even lower for Black Americans. According to Caring.com’s 2022 report, only 29% of Black Americans reported having a will or estate planning document. That means approximately 70% of Black Americans do not have a will, which is significantly higher than the national average.

As CNBC pointed out, an estimated $68 trillion will be transferred from U.S. households to heirs and charity over the next 25 years. This means the consequences are dire for Black families, who will miss out on one of the largest wealth transfers in history.

Across all races, procrastination remains one of the top reasons why people haven’t made a will or a trust. The other top reason is that people believe they don’t have enough assets to leave to anyone, which Crump-Gibson said is a myth.

“Estate planning is a lifetime process, and what I say is that it starts as soon as you hit adulthood. What your plan is going to look like will depend on your assets or family.”

She added, “When you get a bank account, a 401k, whatever it is that you have, you need to plan for it in the event you can’t handle your own affairs. You need to dictate what’s going to happen with that asset.”

Estate planning isn’t just about assets and finances. It’s also essential to plan for health-related events or crises. Crump-Gibson said that under the law, people are recognized as adults at 18, so having a power of attorney document is imperative for all adults, even college students.

“This is what indicates what happens if you are in a state where you can’t make decisions for yourself, because even if you can’t, decisions still have to be made,” she said. “Your bills still need to be paid, and health decisions will need to be made.”

The lack of a power of attorney means that the matter is taken up in probate court, which can consume time that people often don’t have during a health crisis, and incur additional expenses.  

Notarizing Wills and Power of Attorney Documents Properly

Even with documents that indicate how assets should be distributed and who will be recognized as a power of attorney, Crump-Gibson cautioned people that it may not be legally recognized. This is also the case for handwritten documents.

One of the most notorious cases involves Aretha Franklin. Months after her 2018 death, Franklin’s family believed that she had no will. Under Michigan law, that would mean that her assets would have been divided equally among her four sons. However, months later, two handwritten documents were found in her home. The New York Times reported that one was found in her spiral notebook, hidden in the couch, and another was locked in a cabinet.

The problem: Neither document was prepared by a lawyer or listed witnesses, despite one being notarized. Four years later, a jury ruled that the will under Franklin’s couch cushion was valid. Crump-Gibson said this is one of many examples that should serve as a cautionary tale for families.

Have your document written up, have it properly witnessed, and notarized in accordance with whatever your state law provisions are, and then you’ll be protected,” she said. “You’re not exempt from needing to estate plan.”

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D'ANGELO, FUNERAL, DJ PREMIER, FAMILY

DJ Premier Blasts Public Leak Of D’Angelo’s Private Funeral Service

'That shows that fake love is even at your funeral'


Hip-hop producer DJ Premier took to social media to lambast people who attended the funeral service of neo-soul recording artist D’Angelo and posted photos, videos, and even the location of the gravesite after the family specifically requested that people not do so.

D’Angelo, who blessed the world with his soulful vocals before dying from pancreatic cancer, was laid to rest in a private service Nov. 1 in Virginia. According to Premier, the family requested that anyone attending the viewing and the funeral service keep everything private, refraining from filming or sharing any content for public consumption. Sadly, the Gang Starr DJ was disappointed after seeing images and posts that disclosed details such as the program and footage from the cemetery.

He chastised the perpetrators after disclosing that he had not intended to post the video, but that his true love for the singer had overcome him, as he believed it was not his place to speak about the injustice toward D’Angelo’s family.

He stared into the camera and said, “I thought it wasn’t my place to say this, but I really love D’Angelo, so it is my place to say this. Yo, you got to fill out an application to get in and get approved. And before you submitted it as a thing at the bottom that said, ‘Please don’t post, please don’t film. And let’s keep it private for the viewing and the service.'”

The producer of “Devil’s Pie” expressed his disappointment at seeing footage of the funeral circulating online.

“People are running amok all over there, and they’re posting sh*t, posting the program with the whole service, and even the cemetery, like sick sh**, that shows that fake love is even at your funeral, man, but it is what it is.”

He goes on to say that people could talk about the funeral, but it was wrong for them to violate the family’s trust by not keeping it private.

“But salute to his whole family, who was amazing, his kids were amazing when they spoke, just everybody, his brothers, everybody, just to hear his history.”

He ends the clip by acknowledging the singer.

“Michael Eugene Archer, we love you, my dude, D’Angelo. Forever, man. 
And to Infinity, you already know the love is real over here.”

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Joyel Crawford, fairygodmentor, contributor

Ask Your Fairygodmentor®: How To Thrive At Work While Caring For An Aging Parent

It truly takes a village


Reader’s Question:

Dear Fairygodmentor, I’m juggling a demanding job and caring for an elderly parent. How can I manage both without sacrificing my career or health? 

– Balancing Act


Dear Balancing Act,

Whew! I truly overstand what you are going through. You’re working two full-time jobs right now — one that pays you, and one that’s pulling on your heartstrings. I don’t think others truly understand the invisible labor, guilt, and exhaustion that caregiving adds to your life. You’re not alone, so many leaders that I coach are carrying a similar load and suffering in silence.

I vividly recall caring for my father after he suffered several mini strokes and the toll it took on the entire family. Both my mother and I were working full-time with jobs that were less than accommodating and empathetic to meeting the demands of his rehabilitation. We worked in shifts after working 10-12 hours in the office. It wore us out!

Yes, being pulled in several directions can be hazardous to your health and your career.

Let’s apply my RISE©️ method to this situation so you can level up in both of these areas.

Reflect: Recognize the Reality:

• You’ve heard me say this time and time again: take a pause for the cause and name what’s really going on. Step back and ask yourself “What’s truly draining you — time, guilt, expectations, lack of support/resources?” Even though you may think you can do it all, you can’t. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s wisdom. 

• You’ve got to take care of yourself first before you can help others. This is especially key when you’re at work. When people witness you creating boundaries and rules of engagement to protect your peace while being productive, it becomes contagious.  As Maya Angelou once said “If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?”

Identify: What You Can and Can’t Control:

• Even though you THINK you can control everything that’s going on — like every doctor’s appointment or each meeting invite that invades your calendar, you can’t. You CAN control how you choose to show up. 

• Try to identify those red flags of burnout (irritability, insomnia, appetite changes, high blood pressure, etc.) and any boundaries that need to be tightened up.

• Having self-compassion and giving yourself grace are leadership skills, not luxury items. 

Strategize: Create a Support System: 

• It truly takes a village to survive what life is throwing at you right now.  Communicate early and often with your direct manager. Having this level of transparency builds trust.

• Explore caregiving benefits and flexible workplace options (FMLA, flex schedules, and remote working options).

• Block your rest like you would schedule any other important meeting on your calendar.

• Create a caregiving committee: siblings, friends, or local elder-care resources can be very helpful.  Check with your Employee Assistance Program to see if they offer any assistance as well. Remember, strategy only works if it honors your humanity.

Execute: Boundaries and Grace in Action

• You don’t need to make huge leaps to make work/life flow possible. Take small actionable steps like using shared calendars, batching tasks, and saying “no” to non-essential tasks without guilt.  

You’re not failing, Balancing Act. You’re human and you’re doing divine work. You can craft the caregiving career life you crave and continue to RISE© to the top. Don’t forget to care for yourself first before caring for others. 

You got this!

Yours truly,

Your Fairygodmentor®

About Joyel Crawford:

Joyel Crawford is an award-winning career and leadership development professional and founder of Crawford Leadership Strategies, a consultancy that empowers results-driven leaders through coaching, training, and facilitation. She’s the best-selling author of Show Your Ask: Using Your Voice to Advocate for Yourself and Your Career.

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No More Monkey Business: Mississippi Mom Neutralizes ‘Aggressive’ Escaped Primate For Kids’ Safety

Jessica Bond Ferguson feared for the safety of her children and neighbors when the monkey was spotted in her yard


An escaped monkey was killed by a Mississippi woman, Jessica Bond Ferguson, after one of her children informed her that it was running in the yard outside of their home.

According to The Associated Press, Bond Ferguson went inside her home to grab a firearm out of fear that the animal might attack one of her children. Once she went outside the house, after grabbing a gun and a mobile phone, she noticed the monkey running about 60 feet away. Thinking of the safety of her children and neighbors, she shot at the monkey, and she said it just stood there, so she fired again. This time, the monkey was hit and he fell to the ground.

“I did what any other mother would do to protect her children,” Bond Ferguson told the media outlet. “I shot at it and it just stood there, and I shot again, and he backed up and that’s when he fell.”

The incident took place near Heidelberg, Mississippi.

Bond Ferguson stated that before the shooting, she and other people in the area were warned about monkeys that escaped from a truck that had crashed. They were told that the animals carried diseases. Reflecting on the warning prompted her to protect her children.

“If it attacked somebody’s kid, and I could have stopped it, that would be a lot on me,” said Bond Ferguson. “It’s kind of scary and dangerous that they are running around, and people have kids playing in their yards.”

The Facebook page of the Jasper County Sheriff’s Department alerted residents about the accident involving the transport of Rehsus monkeys from Tulane University.

“On 10/28/25, a wreck occurred on I-59 near mile marker 117. This was a truck carrying Rhesus monkeys from Tulane University. The monkeys are approximately 40lbs, they are aggressive to humans, and they require PPE to handle. The monkeys carry hepatitis C, herpes, and COVID. Tulane University has been notified and will send a team to pick up the monkeys tomorrow (the ones that are still caged).”

A truck carrying the monkeys overturned on Oct. 28 on a highway. There were reportedly 21 monkeys in the truck. Thirteen of them were discovered at the accident scene and taken to their destination, according to Tulane University. Five of the monkeys were killed in the hunt for them, and three were still unaccounted for. Before transport, the monkeys were housed at the Tulane University National Biomedical Research Center in New Orleans.

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